Needs:
1) IS for shaky hands, and to help in long-shutter shots
2) quick flash recycle time (most pics will be low-light indoor of the kids)
3) Easy to take anywhere
Wants but not musts:
1) Av, Tv, etc. modes
2) High zoom or adapter capability for higher zoom
Looking At:
A) Powershot S3 - seems a bit bulky, but overall a great camera
B) Powershot A710 - less bulky, but reviews state very slow flash recycle time
C) Powershot SD700 - even less bulky, seems to have better flash recovery
D) Powershot SD800 - Claimed Digic III response time even better.
Seems that the A710 would have fit my bill NICELY (all my needs AND wants) except for the flash recycle time issue.

I'm currently leaning towards the SD800 due to its very small size while still maintaining what I understand to be a very quality picture, and much faster response time (esp. with flash) than most other of the Canon line.
I have not found any other Canon or non-Canon models (based on reviews) that I should be looking into -- if any recomendations, I'd like to know!
thanks,
..dane